Our very first problem. The serious problem (?)
The problem made by me.
Scared? Off course.
Panic? Yes
Happy? Also i am.
What the **ll am i happy about?
Buat saya, ini salah satu anugerah. This is our first (fight) problem! After 8months we've been met.
Why am happy? Because this show our communication improved. Yes! Improve. And (maybe) towards a healthy relationship.
Menurut saya, in a relationship, semakin banyak kita berkomunikasi, cerita ini-itu dan bahas ini-itu, maka kemungkinan masalah muncul itu lebih besar. We make two heads become one, right? itu ga gampang.
Dan saya percaya, kalau kita berhasil menyelesaikan masalah itu, the quality of our relationship will increase!
I believe, the road we'll going through to the day is neither easy nor simple. Full of gravel.
And this is one of the pebble.
I also believe in this scoop, mostly the problems will out with two scenarios;
1. The problems make us stronger and closer. If we believe it is only a 'cobaan'. *positive thinking*
2. The problem is a 'sign'. If we believe we aren't meant to be together. *negative thinking*
So this is important if you both want stay the relationship still. please talk each other and make sure both of you have same mind-set, whatever happen. (If you both sure she/he is the one)
p.s : the problem havent solved yet.
LOVE,
CONFUSEDbride
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